Listen !

listen to what you say , its easier to try to figure out what you are thinking and why you are thinking it , once you say things outloud and they make sense , its probably because you needed to hear someone saying that thing to you , even if it was you who said it in the end .

Also , do the processing that you do usually when you listen to someone else when you listen to yourself , read between the lines , try to figure out the motive that generated these words , and what they are aiming for ,, usually when you are talking about something alot , it does not usually mean that your satisfied with it , it means that you need to convince yourself of something by self-hypnosis , which is not good :) , when you try to hypnotise yourself your trying to convince your subconscious , then let your subconscious convince your conscious , the conscious is the processing unit , so if you pypass it you'll make illogical decisions and harm yourself , which is not good :)

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What is done out of love always takes place beyond good and evil , but what is just and right lies beyond all .